this is your captain speaking, AND THIS IS YOUR CAPTAIN SHOUTING!
getting notes on a selfie
Complimenting someone on an aspect of themselves is a common form of kindness, but kindness can also mean taking a step back when someone is treating you badly.
I’m not saying you should let yourself be abused, but remaining emotionally detatched when people try to drag you into negative interactions is a kindness to yourself as well as to them.
but why would we ever remove the wisest of our teeth